10 Ways To Make Your Wife Happy (And 5 Ways Ruin It)

10 Ways To Make Your Wife Happy (And 5 Ways Ruin It)

A happy wife means a happy life. It doesn’t matter if you've been married for only a year or you're celebrating your 50th wedding anniversary, Keeping your wife happy is the secret to a happy married life. If you can’t or won't who will? Keep your romance alive, and understand your woman's needs. Do not let your love fade away with time.
One you have kids, your priorities changes and all decisions you make as a couple revolves around your children. But wait a minute does that mean all the romance and love has been washed away. As they say your happiness is in your hands. Husbands should make an effort to keep the love, romance and the magic burning.
There are many simple things a husband can do on a daily basis to make his wife happy. Her life is equally or more hectic and frustrating with her job, kids, household responsibilities and her health issues. Express your love for your wife rather than assuming it is understood.
Remind her why you were the best choice she's ever made. Her happiness and smile is what you should aim for. There are numerous times in marriage when a husband and wife get their wires crossed. No wonder men are confused about how to make their wives happy. Here are 10 ways to make your wife incredibly happy and 5 things you shouldn't be doing if you want her to stay happy.
Make It Seem Like You Care What She Has To Say

We all at one or the other point of time in life think that we need to be heard, and women are none the different. In fact, women have the need to be heard more. Maybe she wants to crib about the boss at work, her colleagues or about a friend. You should not judge her or you definitely shouldn't try to recommend solutions unless asked for.
While she is speaking , try to understand her feelings, her point of view and her emotions. Women will undoubtedly hate it when they sees their husbands checking their mobile in the middle of their story.
If the husband is more interested in watching a match or playing video games while she is talking, then she surely is not going to feel cared for. You don’t have to necessarily agree with her point of view. But you can explain your views to her very compassionately instead of annoying her even more. She actually doesn't want to hear your point of view or any solutions to her problem. She just wants to be heard and most importantly understood. Lean forward and look into her eyes while she speaks. Your full attention will definitely make her feel very happy.
Express Your Rage Right

It’s a very natural stuff that spouses fight. But what is not ok is to get abusive or violent in any conversation or quarrel. Honest communication is the key to any long and stable relationship.
If you have anything important to say to your wife, do it when she's relatively stress-free. If you're upset about little little things that your wife did, convey it in a diplomatic way. Give her honest feedback about you feelings on any matter when she asks you about it.
The root cause of any harsh or foul language in an argument is ineffective communication.You should be good at 'expressing negative feelings constructively.' These are the things which we usually do not like hearing from others. It involves bitterness, disappointment, disapproval and resentment. You should try to listen to negative feelings of the other person without getting defensive.
Help With Chores

Today women are at par with men in every field. When she has the professional and financial freedom then why should she take on the full household chores? Guys should help out with the daily dishes, laundry, cooking or vacuuming.
It's very unfortunate that even in today's world, there are still guys who treat their wives with contempt. They feel it's the woman's duty to produce babies, take care of them and do all the household chores while the man does only the manly stuff.
Even if she is not earning any money and is a full time housewife, doing whatever little things will make her feel more loved. a newly married woman is still learning to handle household chores and responsibilities, a woman with kids has enough on her plate juggling household duties and childcare. So at any given time, a wife will always welcome a helping hand from her husband. Treat her to weekend spa relaxing sessions. Offer to babysit the kids so she can have girls' night out once a while.
Support Her Dreams

Women are the ones who usually end up sacrificing their dreams and aspirations when they get married and have children. Buried under an avalanche of household chores and responsibilities, they soon forget they ever had such dreams.
Most women are enormously talented and they do have hobbies to keep them engaged. Apart from her office, household chores or kids, women should have an activity or anything that gives a value addition to her knowledge and career.
Your wife will have many hobbies like writing, poetry, painting, fashion designing, etc. Husbands should make an effort to to support their wives' dreams. Talk to her know her interest work towards making her wish come true.
Tell Her You Love Her

We see so many couples get engaged to get married to each other, with open declarations of love. But plenty of couples get divorced soon after as the love is forgotten in midst of real life drama.
Women need to be told that she is loved and cared for. You should never take your wife for granted. Though, your wife knows that you love her its is important that she feels your love as well. Express it verbally. A man may not feel the need to hear those words often, but a woman does. Do not imagine that she knows, because she does need to be reminded often.
Tell your wife that you love her. Appreciate and respect her presence in your life. Tell her she is beautiful and she is the most important person in your life. Whether in office or out with your friends, occasionally leave her messages that makes her feel good and that you are thinking of her.
Apologize

We are humans, we all make mistakes, regrets and all. At this point I am humming that song ‘Is it too late to say sorry’. Well, it's better late than never. You need to let go of your ego and pride, accept your mistake and apologize. It’s easier said than done. But you need to make an effort if you want to make your wife happy again. It’s also important that you accept and acknowledge your wife’s apologies as well.
Don’t argue to prove you are always right or to prove that your wife is wrong. It's nice if you let go of such things and choose to be happy, over being right. If you’ve had a fight, get her a gift or give her beautiful roses to show her that you are sorry about the fight and that you still love her. Such gestures mean a lot to women. If you are sincere about the whole thing she will definitely feel it and love you back all the more.
Staying Physically Fit Together

Engaging in some workouts together is a healthy way to bring some happiness into any relationship. A woman encounters many health problems after a childbirth. Some these issues can last for years. Weight gain is a major problem for almost all mothers. Encouraging and helping her lose weight benefits her health and your relationship with her.
You can talk her into coming for evening walks or maybe a stroll after dinner. Accompany her to the gym on a regular basis. In this way you will be able to spend some quality time together with your wife outside of your busy work schedules. Join a dance or yoga class together. It will be a great idea if both of you can set a common goal and run a marathon or go hiking together.. Sweating it out together has a certain sex appeal. Such ventures not only strengthen your bodies, they also strengthen your relationship.
Keep Up With Appearances
If you want to keep your wife happy as well impress her, then looks do matter. When you are dating, both partners make sure they groom well, put the best colognes and dress up well. They make an effort to smell and look good.
But when you are married and living together, somewhere along the way, these efforts vanish. Its ok to get into lazy mood once a while but make sure you don’t get into the habit of looking messed up all the time...and stinking.
Your hygiene is important, so take bath and change your clothes daily. Don’t let those sweaty pants get in the way of romance. Your wife will love and appreciate you more when you look handsome and presentable, instead of shabby and stinking..
Keep Up The Romance

Romance or being romantic has nothing to do with age or situation. Come on now… who will not like their husband being romantic and loving.
You need to maintain a husband standards or goal when it comes to keeping your wife happy. In the initial days of marriage, the romance is at the high notch. But once the honeymoon period is over andthe time passes, the romance vanishes and life becomes boring and routine. Going for exotic and expensive vacations frequently is not a workable option.
But you can plan a vacation once a year if you adjust your budget.Visiting new places and spending some days away from home and work is a relaxing way to revive some of the lost romance. You can even plan a date night once a month at least. Find a babysitter for the kids and spend time alone with your wife. Making her feel special in itself is romantic.
Taking her out for dining, gifts, shopping are can also very be romantic gestures. If you have budget issues, then have a candle light dinner at home.. romantic music , wine, flowers are all ways to create a romantic mood at home and keep your wife happy.
Maintaining The Novelty In The Bedroom

Dreams romance and health are important factors in a marriage, but an even more important aspect of marriage is the sex. If you want to keep your wife happy, then you have to keep things fresh and exciting in the bedroom. No matter how busy you are, you need to find the time for plenty of foreplay and mutually satisfying sex.
Cheating On Her Is A Definite No!

A sad story as old as time, broken marriages that result when a partner cheats on the other. What’s more hurting than the very act of adultery .. is the time when the unsuspecting partner becomes aware of the crime.
After all those years of faithfulness, taking care of his needs above her own, giving birth to his kids, taking care of all their needs, working tirelessly to keep the family together… and Damn! After all this struggle comes the blow that your husband has been cheating upon you! That particular moment is indescribable, the emotions, the endless turmoil in her mind, the unbearable pain of the heartbreak...
A cheating husband is such a disappointment to her that it's doubtful he will ever be the recipient of her smiles again.
Spend All Your Money On Alcohol

With the changing times, women have gained more and more prominence in society and in the family. She might be working harder than her husband, juggling career and home, to make their life more comfortable, to achieve more in life than what would have been possible with her husband working alone. In many cases, she might be the sole breadwinner of the family,.
There has been innumerable cases where the man of the family uses his money as well as wife's earnings to to fuel his bad habits like alcohol or drug addiction.Having drinks once in awhile is not a harmful. In fact, in today's world, an occasional drink is considered healthy. If he is not providing financial support, living off her money and then indulging in such habits, then these will definitely strain the relationship. She might pay for your expenses in the beginning, but you might find yourself on the street before long.
A Lack Of Communication Can Kill

Proper communication is key to maintaining a healthy and happy relationship. Call her from your office to see how she is doing, she will definitely appreciate your interest and support. If she had an important event in her day, call up and ask her how it went. But when you don’t do that to her, it's kind of painful.
Even if you are on a tour, ensure nothing in the world stops you from giving her a ring and saying at least a hello. You are the world to her. what is the point in hurting her feelings and saying hello anyone else in the world. When a woman is juggling her career, being a super mom and the sexy wife, she is often filled with self doubt and feelings of being a failure. It's up to her partner to let her know how much he appreciates her and her efforts. He is sure to get rewarded with plenty of beaming smiles.
Forgetting Your Anniversary And Partying In Vegas

Her birthday or Valentine's day was a big opportunity for you to impress her during your courtship days. Guys make a big deal of such opportunities to impress her to the max. But once she becomes his wife’s, the conquest is over for the guy. Prince Charming has no more time for roses. The poor girl realises life has indeed more thorns than roses.
But that doesn't have to the sad reality if he guys can put in a little more effort. The tired, crank wife who is a looking and feeling a mess may not inspire romance in her husband. But a single red rose from her husband on a day she least expects it can bring radiance to her life and beaming smiles directed at you.
If not for no reason, then at least on occasions like a wedding annivery, you must make her feel special. Now when the two of you are supposed to be together and then you hop out on that one day in the whole year to go on a trip with your friends to Vegas or anywhere else...well, don't expect any more smiles from her.
Break Up With Her Using A Text Message

Breakups are common enough in relationships. But if you are indeed planning to break up with her, do it in a gentlemanly way. Let her down gently. There's no reason you can't remain friends. This is all the more important if you are colleagues.
How much ever tough they seem to look, women are very fragile on the inside. Deal with her gently. If you have to break up with her, then be a man about it. Don't be like the cowards who break up using text messages. Her biggest regret then will be that she ever had a relationship with such spineless slime.
If you do it the right way, she will remember you with fondness and a smile on her face. We all have heard stories of great romance stories from some grandmothers who may still be holding on to love letters from their old flames. Those guys definitely got something right if they were remembered with such fondness even decades later.
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